Some people see what is wrong and what is worth going away from. They can, with ease, list what should not be there.
They are crystal clear on what they do not want and what should not happen.
From that perspective, it becomes a challenge to see what they do want. What should be there, and what they want to go towards.
A neat trick: One of the truths of life is that there will always be problems.
The trick is this: Instead of going away from the current problems — consciously choose future problems you are willing to accept.