I am completely binary in my reaction, to any suggestion of a binary: My response is a knee-jerk reaction of "what is the third option".

Between two options, I seek to find a third dimension that shifts all the other explanations. Between black and white, I choose the opposite of that.

In this paradox, is a new lesson that I am not yet ready to learn: Sometimes, binaries are ok. Not all dichotomies are false.